Listening vs. Waiting to Speak: 6 Tips for More Present Conversations
We've all been there, haven't we? You're talking to someone, and it feels more like a waiting game than a real connection. You're just waiting for your turn to jump in with your own story or opinion. It's a common habit, but it really gets in the way of having meaningful chats. This article is all about shifting gears from just waiting to speak to truly listening. We'll look at some simple ways to make your conversations more present and engaging, so you can actually hear what the other person is saying. Key Takeaways Pay attention by focusing on the speaker and limiting distractions. Try to repeat their last sentence in your head to stay engaged. Use your body language to show you're interested. Lean in a bit, nod, and try to make eye contact. Make an effort to listen more than you talk. It's easy to want to jump in, but let them finish first. Ask questions to understand better. Open-ended questions like 'How did that feel?' can keep the c...